Like so many people, I love traditions. I especially cherish the anticipation and excitement that the little kids add to the experience. This past weekend, I had seven grand-kids over to carve pumpkins and have a sleep over. The ages ranged from 13 years old down to 1 year. I have been carrying this tradition on for nearly 27 years (only missing one year). My oldest grand-daughter was planning on joining us, but she was busy delivering a beautiful baby girl.

While the kids have changed through the years, the activities and excitement has remained the same. We always start with the pumpkin carving, then finish with popcorn and a movie. When the kids wake up in the morning, they immediately ask when the hot-coco will be ready. We usually sit outside under the heaters so we can watch the birds and squirrels.

Year after year, I do my best to keep these traditions alive, however, it becomes more challenging with each passing year. As our family grows, and our lives get busier and busier, it takes more of an effort to bring everyone together.

Grief and loss can be great reminders of how precious our time with family and friends are and how important it is to keep our traditions alive. It also feels like a way to keep those who have passed, a part of our present. I am feeling blessed today that my grand-kids were as excited as I was to keep our pumpkin carving tradition alive!